Flip a coin?

"Yah what, I think she can go for it la. Can talk a lot, flirtatious, people will like her." Although it was a general comment, I felt sarcasm and insult coming out of this statement. Am I flirtatious when I put my self confidence up front? ... or is my definition of confidence wrong all this while?

I like to make people feel relaxed and comfortable when I work with them. I tend to crack lame jokes but I never make playfully romantic or sexual overtures. Or do I without realizing? I am choosing to ignore this indirect sarcastic insult and take it as a compliment. Why? It takes self confidence to flirt.

I wonder if all this is good....

There will be much more controversial issues going on at work, which I believe, most of them will not be at my favor. I have to put up/deal/ignore with more statements such as the above. I would definitely have to up grade my "personal firewall" at work. And upgrade my "root kit detector".

My work load had been increasing week by week since three of my team mates (one which was my team leader) have left the company. Just as I thought I have reached my personal limit (And according to my KPI, my personal limit is above average), I have been given even more work. For the first time, I felt that I wasn't able to complete what was given to me. I believe there will be more of these days to come.

...I'm ready for the challenge... but I'm still afraid that this will be a mistake. Should I leave? If yes, I know I have to do it soon, I can't waste anymore time. And if I stay, how far can this company take me?

Flip a coin?