Different but same

During lunch one of my workmate Ad asked me and Jin something. "Eh, both of you so close, neighbours, what if you like the same guy? What will happen?" You know it's so weird because of all 21++ years in my life I have never thought about this. We have never encountered anything like that before too. It didn't take me (us) long to answer Ad's question. ...Actually both of us re acted the same. We would never fall for the same guy. We have different taste in our man.

Sometimes it's weird when I think about it. Me and Jin are different in so many ways. But yet we are still two peas in a pod.

She's always the more feminine one, my clothes and fashion guru. I think I was more of the tom boy. We went to different primary and secondary school. Same college but ended up taking different majors. She enjoys clubbing, but raving is fun for me too.

We like different kinds of animes. She likes real life stories, but like fantasy. She like simulation games, but I like first person shooter games.

We even have different eating habits. I always tell her that she has two small stomachs. And I have one big one. I can finish off all of food from the plate (all goes to the big stomach), but will have no way of drinking my cup of water. Jin on the other hand will have leftovers on her plate (fill up her small stomach), but she finished her cup of water (and fill up the other stomach)... and sometimes help me with mine too.

Sometimes I think it's because of our differences (and the way we understand each other) that brings our friendship to this stage. It's better than being twins! Hehehe.

Anyway, have also thought about Zhong. There's no way we can fall for the same man....unless he suddenly turns gay without telling me. Being close to him makes me feel very comfortable sometimes. It's like what Ad will call, "She's not a girl already, she's my heng dai, she's my (male) buddy" I think I'm a buddy to Zhong, and to his friends too hehehe.

You know sometimes you have to watch you say in front of girls\guys. We don't have to do that with us. He can be in his HORNY mode all he wants, and I can be the BITCH I want to be. And when the day ends, we are still what we are, buddies.

It's hard to find a person who can really take the truth, but Zhong some how always take what I say as advice, not as insults. (....although I know sometimes I can be 'lebeh'. Sorry dude... don't why I'm such a bitch sometimes)