Ignorance is bliss, until ignorance turns to neglection

You know sometimes when you have a really long and stable relationship with someone... things starts to get dry. Do you ignore it?

Ignorance is bliss, until ignorance turns to neglection.

Many people fail to see this coming. And you know, this applies to all kinds of relationships. Family, lovers, friends and even enemies.

Some people cry day and night, saying that his or her relationship of 5 years just went drown the drain because his or her partner left for someone else. No one is to blame but if this happens to you, ask yourself. You knew the relationship is running dry. You realized that things were not the same. You saw it coming. But did you try doing something about it?

I believe that many are too comfortable and relaxed in a relationship that they forget what the first few months of their relationship were like. Many assume that they are in a long stable relationship "We'll get married soon" kind of relationship until it makes them too lazy to move their brain to spice up their 'long stable relationship'. "Ahh never mind la, he\she is ok with it one", "Aiyor, lazy la... next time la" but next time takes forever. All this little things can actually destroy a relationship.
Well, if you start neglecting your friends. Same thing will happen.

Suddenly when a new man comes into your life, the only person you know is your man. Friends slowly fade away... and some turn invisible. Good friends become distant and slowly disappear. Before you know it, you are left with no one. (if your 'man' leaves you)

"Nar, I'm not that type" you say.

Some would climb mountains and swim across seas for someone they hardly know. Or walk on burning coal and sleep on bed of nails for 'new' friends. But what happen to your good old 'have always been there for you' friends? A quick directly "Too damn lazy la" answer but you think "Ah... have known him for ages, he won't mind". But really..?

Same goes with 'annoying' family members. One day you will know that you are the annoying one.

Think your wife have an easy life at whole while you work your arse off at the office? Seriously think again. I have personally see families fall apart because of this. Sometimes it’s not just husband and wife relationships, but siblings. And not forgetting, the unreturned love to our parents.

Why did I write all this? Well I know how much it hurts to be neglected. And I know I have been neglecting people.

Something to at for my new years resolution.